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Friday 5 December, 2008
 13:19 | 10/Dec/2007 |  9 Comment(s)
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And then there is love..... or is it !?!

Is there a thing called "LOVE"... or is it something that happens only to a Shahrukh or an Amir in Kuch Kuch hota hai and the likes....

Like I said, everyone has a blog on Love!! Its time I wrote one too…. Just so that I don’t feel left out J

 

We all have our theory on love

I have two.

 

Theory number one (No its not a new Govinda flick!!) Love is like fashion every one wants it but no one can understand it.

 

Theory number two And this one is more profound. I strongly believe that if you have been with A special someone for a period of 2 years and by that I mean truly in love with and deeply committed (and not having had the urge to suffocate him / her in their sleep) then you are meant to be with that person for the rest of your life. I sincerely feel that love is only secondary, what is more important is compatibility, understanding and mutual respect. Its not a formula, neither is it a recipe for a successful relationship. But with my limited experience I can tell you that love is not alllll………….

 

Coming from a family with a mindset that boys are evil, there were limited interactions with the opposite sex. But once I became the master of my own will, although a little late in life I realized how important it was to have gone through the butterfly in the stomach, starry eyed, he loves me he loves me not, Drawing hearts, etching names on any empty space and late night talks that went on til 4 in the morning about absolutely nothing, but also everything Phase.

 

These experiences are an important part of life. They tell you what to expect or should I say what not to expect.

 

Well I have never really believed in love.

Fairies - Yes

Miracles - Yes

Patriotic Politicians - Ok lets not push it

Love - Hell no

 

Love is over hyped. (But then again in todays day and age who is looking for love, physical gratification is it !?! )

If you ask me there is no such thing as love, Infatution ... I understand!.... crushes(temporary obsession with a person of opposite sex or same sex depending upon ones sexual orientation) .... Possible! Compatability ..... absolutely !! But Love is something I do not understand.............  

I believe that a relationship can work only if two people are friends first. And that to me is how close one can get to love...

 

And if this blog was to be renamed ever, it would read " and then I wonder why I am single "... he he he

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